The statistics are staggering. Every year more than 5000
teenagers commit suicide while another 500,000 attempt to do so. Thousands of
kids are killed and injured each year in an automobile accident and horrible
acts of violence that are linked to drugs. Millions of kids are turning to
drugs and alcohol to try to find their place in the world. What can we as
parents do to make sure that our children grow up with the self-worth and the
values that empower them to "just say no" and use good judgment when
they are out on their own?
One of my colleagues informed me of a man who he heard tell
an unfortunate story with a critical message on the very issue.
This was a professional man who spent his entire adult life
working hard to achieve financial success for himself and his family. He was
very committed to accomplishing extraordinary things in his professional life,
and he did. He owned five major companies and was worth millions of dollars. He
recently found out that this wasn't everything. One night, after flying his
personal airplane to a business meeting, he received a startling call in the
middle of the night from his wife. He jumped as his wife proceeded to tell him
that his daughter in law was killed in a house fire and his two grandchildren
were critically injured. Stunned by the news, he flew out the next morning,
after his meeting and arrived home in time to hear the doctor inform the family
that both of the children had died.
Crushed by this horrible news, he couldn't imagine things
getting worse, but they did. Within just a few days, his son was arrested and
charged with the crime. He is currently serving a life sentence.
This man's message is very powerful and very sad. Imagine
his pain. Imagine the questions he must have. I would wonder to myself,
"did I do all I can to raise my family with the right values?" Did I
do all I can to instill a value system that supported a loving home in which
every person knew they were important, a value system based on love and
understanding and a value system free from drugs?'
Is this the kind of home you are creating? Don't answer this
question with the spontaneous "of course" like many people
thoughtlessly do. Think very carefully about whether your day to day actions
match your response.
Many times, while your intention is to raise a drug free
family, you are creating a drug dependent one without even realizing. You
actually program drug dependency into your families’ behavior! What do I mean
by this? How could this be? Please follow along with me for a minute without
judgment and open yourself up to this information as you read on...
IT COULD MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE IN THE OUTCOME OF YOUR
CHILD'S LIFE.
Think about what happens when your baby is born and he/she
gets sick for the first time. If you have not educated yourself about your
child's natural immunity and how it develops, you might immediately run to your
doctor in a panic to alleviate your child's apparent suffering, at any price and
give your child a drug.
As they grow up to become toddlers, they may get another
cold or infection and so they won' t "suffer", you give them a drug.
They continue to grow up and each time they complain, they don't feel good,
what do you do to make them feel better? You run to the drug store and get them
an over the counter drug.
Finally, they are old enough to go to school and the teacher
tells you that your child isn't concentrating or sitting still. Rather than
look for alternative ways to teach, like many good teachers do, the child is
labeled hyperactive or attention deficit and given a drug, Ritalin. It is
amazing that in some schools, 50% of the children are on Ritalin, while others
less than 5% of the kids are on this drug that has severe side effects.
Drug companies market their products, drugs, to physicians
and parents with little emphasis placed on these side effects. Ritalin, for
example, includes side effects such as insomnia, appetite loss, stunted growth
and suicide. Antibiotics cause digestive disturbances and create highly
resistant bacteria that cause super infections which strain your immune system
and are untreatable. Aspirin causes abdominal bleeding while Tylenol and
Ibuprofen increase the risk of kidney disease.
Even worse than the side effects of these drugs is the
message it sends. From the time they are born, your children get the message
that when they feel bad they should take drugs to help them feel better. As
subtle as it may seem, this behavior is conditioned. They see it every time you
say "I have a headache" and choose to take a pill. Is it any wonder
that when a child doesn't make the cheerleading squad or gets dumped by their
boyfriend or girlfriend, they turn to drugs to relieve pain?
You can stop the insanity that this quick fix, relief
orientation causes. Millions of people already have. Last year Americans made
over 100 million more visits to holistic doctors than they did to medical
doctors because people everywhere are tired of taking pills and are concerned
about their horrible side effects. Almost every person you talk to today has a
horror story about a severe drug reaction.
People today want wellness. They know that the human body
has an incredible inborn healing power that heals them from a cut. At the same time
they have little faith in drugs which are harmful chemicals with unpredictable
side effects. They are demanding information on how to build their body's
immune system for long term health rather than performing constant crisis care.
Chiropractic has led the way for these people by providing
incredible results, information, scientific validation and research material on
how to restore the body to optimum health and keep it that way. Thousands of
families receive ongoing Chiropractic Wellness Care and have practically
eliminated medical expenses because they are healthier now than ever before.
These people have turned their medicine chests into bathroom cabinets because
they no longer use drugs.
THESE ARE NOT JUST PEOPLE WITH BACK PAINS. These are people
who are suffering from every disease you can name from cancer to Crohn's
disease, from asthma to menstrual problems. While Chiropractic doesn't treat
these conditions, it allows the body to return to normal function so that it
has the best opportunity to heal itself. Many of these people are perfectly
healthy and are just looking to get to the next level.
One patient, in particular, had such severe menstrual
problems, she had to completely get away from people every month and check into
a hotel. Within 90 days of getting Chiropractic care, her body chemistry
balanced itself out and her hormonal rages were gone. Another woman with a
severe intestinal disorder couldn't leave the house because of her condition.
She was scheduled for surgery because she was dying. As a last resort, she
tried Chiropractic. Her body’s innate healing ability took over and she cancelled
the surgery. One month later, she was in Europe with her children. Her entire
family now receives ongoing Chiropractic Wellness Care.
People are seeking out Chiropractic care for superior
performance also. Olympic and professional athletes receive Chiropractic
Wellness Care to help them get the most out of their training and enhance their
performance.
Children who used to get sick all the time and be on
constant medication are now getting Chiropractic Wellness Care with their
families and they are truly healthy and drug free. Think about the difference
in the message your kids are receiving with these two different approaches.
The old system says, "I'm sorry you feel bad. Your body
is weak and you need these drugs to be well." Wellness, on the other hand
says, "Your body is strong and has the ability to heal itself. Let's
remove the interference so you can get well on your own. You can trust your
body."
Children that grow up in wellness grow up believing in
themselves and are independent from drugs. Families that receive Chiropractic
Wellness Care are sharing healthy times and perpetuating healthy values. Kids
run into Chiropractic offices and can't wait to get on the table for their
adjustments. They are much healthier for it.
Give yourself and your family every opportunity to live the
healthiest life possible. A drug free life! Empower them to believe in their
own inner strength, healing capacity and their unlimited human potential.
If it works for millions of others, why wouldn't it work for
you? Are you alive? Are you breathing? It will work for you, once you make the
commitment!